I used plain white dinner and salad plates to form the snowmen. The hats are made with a plain blue beverage napkin and a table knife for the rim. The scarves are made with two rectangular napkins. I folded one to wrap around the "neck," and another to tuck into the neck. Each snowman has fork and spoon arms, Hershey's Drops for eyes and buttons, and a mini carrot nose.
I found these cute little mitten ornaments at a local craft show, so I put one mitten on each snowman. I just tucked the hanger part under and hooked the mitten onto the fork. The ladies took their mitten home as a party favor. Since we ended up with more place settings than people, they had fun looking around to pick which mitten they wanted.
I typically like to do name cards for company, but this was the type of gathering where I didn't want to assign seats. So instead of name cards, I wrote a little message on the cards. I wanted the women to feel loved and appreciated because they mean so much to me.
For dinner, we had homemade spaghetti and meatballs, garlic green beans, bread made in my bread machine, and a Christmas tree shaped chocolate cake with cream cheese frosting. It was a great evening!